Surviving Twins

First of all, I just want you all to know that no, my children didn’t kill me. I apologize for not writing for such a long time. Sometimes life just gets in the way. My husband started a new job and was traveling for about a month. I’ve started a vinyl lettering business, one of my daughters broke her elbow, and then came the holidays. So those are the highlights of the last 2 months! Oh, and did I mention I still have 2-year-old twins? Fortunately, most of you reading this know that the last one is a list in and of itself.

Second, I’ve received a couple emails since I haven’t written a post in ages… and I just want to thank you. Honestly, I enjoy blogging about twins… but it’s even nicer to know that some of you enjoy reading what I have to say. So, knowing that, I promise (maybe as a New Year’s resolution) to be more consistent with my blog.

I was hoping to have something fantastic to write about- since it’s been so long, but I don’t. So, here are some thoughts I’ve had over the last couple months. In talking with many parents of multiples, I’ve found that every stage is different for everyone. I was told countless times when I was pregnant that the first year would be the hardest. Well, I have to disagree…strongly! I absolutely LOVED the first year. Playing, reading, feeding, taking my new little best friends on errands- everyday we were thriving. I loved life! Then my girls started walking- and talking. Of course, I still enjoy every “new” stage- like learning to walk, and learning new words, but when 18 months hit, I was suddenly not thriving anymore. Many days were physically, mentally, and emotionally draining. Still, at almost 2 1/2, my girls are exhausting. I am more tired some days now than I was when I breastfed 3 times a night. (At least then I could get in a nap or 2). However, I do realize that my girls are getting much better at communicating. And sometimes it’s easier to reason with them.

So, what’s my point? Well, every stage brings something new. New challenges and new blessings. And whatever that ends up being, it’s always going to be double! So, if you’re one of those whose first year is incredibly difficult, hang in there! The next stage will probably get easier. And if you’re one of those whose having the most difficult pregnancy, you’ll probably appreciate those 2 adorable little babies. And if you’re like me, and your twins are taking the “terribles” literally, it’s bound to end. So, while it’s good- enjoy it, and keep on thriving! And when it’s not so good, just keep on surviving. Tomorrow’s a new day.

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