Travelling Alone
Flying alone with twins is one of the more dreaded experiences, but in talking to other mothers of multiples, those who have done it have survived it- successfully. Many have even said that it truly isn’t that bad. So, if you’re brave enough, or if it’s the only option, here are a few tips.
1. Call first if twins are under 4 months. Although I haven’t called every airline, I’ve called the major American ones, and this shouldn’t be an issue. But I do know of some international airlines (i.e. British airlines) that specifically will NOT let any one person fly with 2 infants under the age of 4 months. Once they are 4 months, you are required to purchase a seat for at least 1 infant. Again, most American airlines let you purchase a seat for an infant of any age, so this shouldn’t be a problem, but call first to make sure.
2. Buy an extra seat (or 2). This may be obvious, but you are NOT allowed 2 lap children for 1 adult. An infant may have its own seat, however, so make sure to buy at least one extra seat. If it’s worth the money to you, buy a seat for both babies. Call and find out if they will give an extra discount for children under 2.
3. Get Assigned Seating. Get your seat assignments as soon as possible so you know you will be sitting by all of your children.
4. Let people help. This is not the time to prove that you can do it alone. If people offer to help hold things, push a stroller, walk down the terminal with you, let them. And I hope they will.
5. Borrow the Necessities. You will have so much to worry about, so leave the pack ‘n plays at home. Hotels have cribs and extra beds. And if you are going to visit family, either buy a bed to keep at Grandma’s house permanently, or borrow from a friend.
Check the previous posts for tips on specific age groups: Travel Tips: Ages 0-12mos, Travel Tips: Ages 1-2yrs, Travel Tips: Ages 3-5yrs